Ngubani iSociopath

Abantu abafani, lokhu kujwayelekile, abanye baziphatha budedengu futhi bagqama esixukwini. Uyazi ukuthi ngubani i-sociopath? Ukwazi incazelo nezimpawu zokuhlalisana kwabantu, ungakwazi ukubona lowo muntu kuwe.

I-Sociopathy ukuphazamiseka kobuntu lapho umuntu eshaya indiva noma ephula amalungelo abantu futhi engalandeli imithetho eyamukelwe emphakathini. I-sociopath ngumuntu ongakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nomphakathi.

Ama-Sociopaths athandwa kakhulu ngamantombazane, ababhali besikrini, nodokotela bengqondo. Kungani? Kulula. Abesifazane bathanda abantu ababi, ababhali besikrini bababona njengamaqhawe afanelekayo kumabhayisikobho, futhi odokotela bengqondo babasebenzisela ukuvikela iziqu.

Inkinga enkulu ye-sociopath yangempela ukungabi nemingcele. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kushiya kungathandeki, akanacala ngezenzo zakhe. Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu akubuhlungu ngoba akaqondi ukuthi wenza okungalungile. Cishe wonke umuntu onama-sociopaths uhlakaniphile futhi unobuhlakani obumangalisayo. Baqamba amanga ngobuqili futhi bayazi kahle ubuciko bokukhohlisa.

Ngokwososayensi, umuntu ngamunye unezindlela ezimbili zokuphila kusukela azalwa.

1. Isidalwa esingokwemvelo ngumuntu, uma kuqhathaniswa nezilwane ezihlala emhlabeni, onobuhlakani obuthuthukile.
2. Umuntu uyisidalwa esinengqondo esiphila emphakathini. Ukwakhiwa nokusetshenziswa kwesiko lezinto ezibonakalayo nezingokomoya kwenziwa ngemizamo ehlangene nabantu abaseduze.

Izici zobuntu ziboshelwe ku-genome eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane eziningi. Ngenxa yalokho, umzimba nohlelo lomzimba lomuntu, ngemuva kokuphothula ukwakheka, luguqulwa ngokuphelele kwinqubo yokuhlangana nabantu. Sikhuluma ngemfundo, ukukhuliswa, ukwenziwa kwezimiso zokuziphatha.

Ukucabanga kwe-sociopath kuhambisana nokuphazamiseka kofuzo, lapho inkumbulo yefa ingakwazi ukwakha izimfanelo zomuntu wobudlelwano ebuchosheni. I-sociopath ngumuntu okuthi, ngenxa yesifo sofuzo, angakwazi ukuqedela inqubo yokuxhumana nabantu futhi ajoyine impilo yomphakathi.

Izimpawu zokuhlalisana kwabantu abadala nezingane

Ukungasebenzi kobuntu be-Dissocial ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okwenzeka ngenxa yokukhuliswa ngendlela engafanele, amathonya amabi ezemvelo nezimo zokuphila ezingezinhle. I-pathology ayixhumene nobudala, futhi abasengozini kakhulu yizingane. I-Sociopathy ibonakala ngokungazinaki izinkambiso zenhlalo, ulaka, isimilo sokujaha nokungakwazi ukwakha okunamathiselwe. Lezi akuzona zonke izimpawu zokungahambi kahle kobuntu.

Izimpawu ze-12 ze-sociopath

1. Ukuziphatha okungafanele... I-sociopath iyazinaka izinkambiso zenhlalo futhi idlula njalo ekuziphatheni. Lapho ethatha isinqumo, akacabangi ngemiphumela yezenzo zakhe.
2. Ukukhohlisa... I-sociopath ihlala iqamba amanga, noma ezimeni lapho ingenziwa ngaphandle kwayo. Izindaba ezingakholeki zibonakala zikholeka kakhulu, kuyinkinga ukumbamba ngamanga.
3. Ukuziphatha kobugebengu... Ukuphuma esimweni esinzima, i-sociopath ngeke inqikaze ukwephula umthetho. Ekuziphatheni kwakhe, amanothi enesihluku, amandla nokuzidela abonakala ngokusobala. Isela, indoda ethintekayo, umbulali uyisibonelo esihle senhlalo yabantu.
4. Ukungabi nonembeza... I-sociopath ayizizwa inamahloni noma inecala ngezenzo abazenzile, ngisho nokuziphatha okubi noma okungokomzimba.
5. Ukuphathwa... I-sociopath iyakujabulela ukuba ngumholi weqembu labantu abantekenteke. Njengoba abantu abanjalo bebonakala ngokuphila okungenzi lutho, kuthinta ukucabanga kwabo nezenzo zabo.
6. Ukunganaki... I-sociopath ngeke yakhe ubuhlobo obuseduze. Akumangazi, ngoba akazweli kuhawukela, inhlonipho, uzwela nothando.
7. Ukuziqhenya okuphezulu... I-sociopath iyakuthanda ukunconywa, kepha iyakuzonda futhi ayikunaki ukugxekwa. Udinga ukunconywa nokunakwa futhi ulwela ukwamukelwa endaweni yonke.
8. Ingozi engenasisekelo... I-sociopath ithanda ukuzibeka engcupheni ngoba ithola impilo yomuntu ojwayelekile iyisicefe ngendlela emangalisayo. Ekuphishekeleni izinjabulo, uvame ukuthatha isenzo anezincazelo zocansi.
9. Ulaka... I-sociopath ivame ukungena empini ngisho nangaphezu kwezinto ezincane. Uhlala angene enkingeni. Uyabona ukuthi, njengoba enesizungu, akakwazi ukubhekana nabantu ababumbene.
10. Ukwesatshiswa... Ukubonakaliswa okuqhubekayo kokuziphatha nokuphakama komzimba kunabantu nezilwane kungenye inkomba yokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha. I-sociopath inabahlaseli ababi.
11. Ukwehluleka ukufunda emaphutheni... I-sociopath ayifinyeleli iziphetho. Ngisho nangemva kwephutha elikhulu, ngeke aguqule ukuhleleka kwezenzo nokuziphatha, futhi uzophinde anyathele i-rake eyaziwayo.
12. Ukulimala kwempahla yomunye umuntu. Isifiso sokucekela phansi izindinganiso zabanye kuyinselelo enkulu emphakathini.

Imininingwane yevidiyo

Lezi zimpawu zikhona ngezinga elithile kuwo wonke umuntu, kepha kubantu abane-dissocial ubuntu disorder, zibonakala kakhulu. Uma abangane bakho banezimpawu ezithile, isazi sezengqondo kuphela esingenza ukuxilongwa okuthile.

Izimbangela zenhlalo yabantu

Ngokwezibalo, izimpawu zokuphazamiseka kobuntu obungekho emphakathini zikhona ku-15% wabantu abelashwa emitholampilo yezengqondo. Izimpawu zokugula zivezwa eziboshweni zasejele ezidonsa izigwebo zonya nobudlova, phakathi kwabantu abanotshwala nezidakamizwa. Sekuyisikhathi eside ososayensi bethanda izimbangela zokuhlalisana kwabantu abadala nezingane, ngoba lesi sifo silimaza iziguli nomphakathi.

• Kukholakala ukuthi lesi sifo sizuzwe njengefa, njengokuma kwezindlebe noma umbala wamehlo. Izingane ezikhula ngokwenhlalo zithambekele ekuthuthukiseni ukugula, noma ngabe zingabazali kanjani.
• Ukuthuthukiswa kwe-sociopathy kusizwa yinhlanganisela yezimpawu zobuzali, ukubekwa kofuzo, izici zebhayoloji kanye nemvelo.
• Ososayensi abakwazanga ukuthola izimbangela ezingokwemvelo zalesi sifo. Kepha baqaphela ukuthi ubuchopho be-sociopath busebenza ngokuhlukile. Isiguli sinengxenye engakhuli kahle yobuchopho ebhekele ukubona, ukuphendula ukusongela kobuso obusabisayo noma obudabukisayo, ukufunda emaphutheni.
• Ngaphezu kokuthambekela kofuzo, umthelela omubi ovela kontanga noma isehlakalo esibuhlungu esenzeke empilweni siholela ekuveleni kwezifo.
• Ukuthuthuka kwesifo sokuhlakazeka kungasuswa ukungalingani kwamahomoni, okuthi, ngokwesibonelo, kwabesifazane kwenzeka ngaphambi kokuya esikhathini. Kuyiqiniso, ngeke kusebenze ukuchaza ukuvela kwalesi sifo kuphela ngokuphambuka okunjalo.

Akunakwenzeka ukusho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi yini ebangela lesi sifo. Ososayensi bahlala besebenza ngale ndlela.

Izinhlobo zama-sociopaths

Phambilini, abantu abane-dissociation babebizwa ngama-psychopaths, kepha kamuva i-sociopathy yaba yisifo esizimele. Impilo ye-sociopath imayelana nokuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho. Akanaki imibono yabanye, akafuni futhi akazi ukuthi angaxhumana kanjani nomphakathi.

Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zihlukanisa lezi zinhlobo zemiphakathi elandelayo:

• I-Passive (Latent). Uxhumana nabantu kuphela uma kunesidingo. Kunenkinga ukubona, ngoba ufihla ngobuciko ukunganaki. Lokhu kungenziwa esimweni lapho ekhombisa isimilo esingenasimilo.
• Kuyasebenza. Hhayi ukufihla. Ekuboneni komuntu onjalo, umuntu uthola umbono wokuthi ungumuntu onengekayo, obonakala ngokungahloniphi, ukuzikhukhumeza, ubugovu nokuziphatha okubi. Lokhu akulona iphutha lakhe, kungenxa yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Ama-Sociopaths ezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene ahluka ngokuziphatha, kepha ingqikithi yawo iyafana.

Ukwelapha i-sociopaths kanye nenhlalo yabantu

Uzibuza ukuthi abantu baphathwa kanjani? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ususe lesi sifo ngokusebenzisa usizo lodokotela bengqondo? Imibuzo ethokozisayo. Ngeshwa, akukho lutho oluzokujabulisa ngalesi sihloko.

Ayikho indlela ephumelelayo emhlabeni yokubhekana nokuphazamiseka kobuntu. Kungenzeka kuphela ukunciphisa ubunzima bezimpawu. Isibonelo, ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo, okugxile ekulawuleni imicabango eholela ekuziphatheni okungekho emthethweni, kunciphisa izehlakalo zokuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini.

Imithi esetshenziselwa ukwelapha ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo ayisebenzi futhi kwesinye isikhathi iyingozi ekuhlalaneni kwabantu. Ngakho-ke, izindlela ezisebenzayo zokulwa nokudangala noma ukuphazamiseka kokudla kungazenza zibe zimbi izimpawu zokuhlalisana kwabantu.

Imiphumela emihle ikhonjiswa ukwelashwa kwengqondo, okuhloswe ngayo ukufundisa isociopath ngemithetho yokuziphatha emphakathini, kucatshangelwa imithetho, imikhawulo ekhona nemikhuba yokuziphatha.

Alikho ikhambi lokwelapha lesi sifo. Imithi iyeka kuphela ukuhambisana nezimpawu. Uma i-sociopathy ihambisana nesimo sokudangala, odokotela basebenzisa imishanguzo yokulwa nezingcindezi. Ama-Mood stabilizers abangelwa iziguli ezithanda ukuba nolaka.

Ingabe i-sociopathy kanye ne-phobia yomphakathi yinto efanayo?

Abantu bavame ukudida i-sociopathy nokukhathazeka komphakathi, bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto efanayo. Eqinisweni, lezi yizifo ezahlukahlukene. Ukuqiniseka ngalokhu, kwanele ukubheka imiqondo ye-sociopath nokukhathazeka komphakathi.

• I-sociopath ngumuntu onolaka ongaziboni izindinganiso zokuziphatha ezamukelwe emphakathini. Isiguli asifuni futhi asikwazi ukuzivumelanisa nomphakathi futhi kaningi sihola impilo eyingozi.
• I-sociophobe umuntu owesabayo umphakathi. Kuyena, ukukhuluma nezilaleli kubi kunokufa. Uyabesaba abantu, wesaba ukwakha ubudlelwano, wesabe nokuxhumana. Ukuzihlukanisa ngokweqile nokuqapha kuvimbela ukwesaba komphakathi ekusunguleni ukuxhumana ngomlomo.

Umehluko uyamangalisa. Icala lokuqala ukunganakwa komphakathi nemithetho yawo, okwesibili ukwesaba yonke into nawo wonke umuntu. I-sociopath, ngokungafani ne-phobia yezenhlalo, iyingozi kubantu.

Imiphakathi edumile

Ake sikhulume ngemiphakathi edumile eyashiya uphawu oluphawulekayo emlandweni. Kuvela ukuthi baningi babo, asazi nje ukuthi bafakiwe esigabeni sabantu abanokuphazamiseka kobuntu okungaziwa.

Empilweni yangempela

U-Adolf Hitler uyisibonelo esihle senhlalo yabantu. Umbono wakhe wezepolitiki wawususelwe kumgomo wobuholi - isisekelo esihle sokuthuthukiswa kwenhlalo yabantu. UHitler wayengenalo uhlelo olujwayelekile lwamagugu, futhi wayephatha izimpilo zabantu ngendelelo. Engazizwa enecala, ukukhathazeka noma ukuzisola, wagqekeza ngamandla.

Eminye imiphakathi edumile iyaziwa emlandweni - umashiqela uStalin, umbulali obulalayo uChikatilo, umbusi waseRoma uCaligula.

Futhi zifaka esigabeni sabo:

• abashisekeli benkolo abephula amalungelo wabamele bezinye izinkolo,
• abantu abathelele abanye ngezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi,
• amadoda amantombazane anonya aqoqa izigigaba futhi alahle amantombazane.

Kumabhayisikobho

I-cinema yesimanje ithanda ukuqamba ngamaqhawe asesikrinini njenge- "sociopath." Ngenxa yemizamo yabalobi besikrini, ukungasebenzi kahle kobuntu sekuyinto eyejwayelekile. UDkt House, uSherlock Holmes, uDexter, uHannibal Lecter - uhlu olungaphelele lwamaqhawe, onemidwebo engqondo ehambelana ngokuphelele nencazelo yenhlalo yabantu.

Ithelevishini izama ukwakha umbono wokuthi izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zengqondo zisesitayeleni, ziyafaneleka futhi zigcizelela ukuzimela. Kuyinkohliso. I-sociopathy iyisifo esibi esiholela ekutheni unganakwa ngokuphelele futhi uqaphele imikhuba yomphakathi.

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